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THE JOYGRAM™
from Peggy Joyce, PCC, The Joy Coach™

Volume 3, Number 2, February, 2004
Circulation: Ever-Growing Subscription is free. Sharing is encouraged.

GROWING THE SUBSCRIPTION LIST
The JoyGram will have at least 5000 subscribers by the end of 2004. You assist the creation of that by recommending it to others. It will happen because it has already happened; I am Deliberately Creating it! Share JOY. And if you know someone you think would like a Coaching for God scholarship, please forward The JoyGram to them as well.

VITAL: ADDITIONAL COACHING FOR GOD SCHOLARSHIPS!!
On December 1, 2003, I gave three more Coaching for God scholarships. If you want to send an application for the next round of scholarships, do it now. The deadline for application is March 30, 2003.Three more scholarships will be awarded on April 1st! The Fool is actually the Wise One in the centuries-old Tarot tradition so BE an April Fool!

HOW TO APPLY: Simply send an email to me at thejoycoach@arn.net or use the easy form at the end of this newsletter. Tell me why you want the scholarship. The qualifications are a profound desire to make the Divine the conscious center of your life, the willingness to discover and let go of what's in your way, and the willingness to embrace your own legacy -- you ARE a Creation of the Divine.

The scholarship includes a written inventory, a 90-minute intake session and eleven 30-minute coaching sessions.

Here's what a former recipient recently said about the experience of having a Coach for God: "I feel that my heart, mind, body, and soul, and most importantly, my inner being have been simply transformed by our time together, Peggy. God has embraced me and helped me to grow through you like nothing I've ever experienced before." B.C., St. Louis, Mo.


HOW OKAY ARE YOU WITH BEING OKAY?

That's a catchy kind of question and I thought it was pretty clever when I heard myself ask it of a student. Now it just does not seem clear enough. What I want to ask, what I want to shout actually is...

HOW OKAY ARE YOU WITH BEING HAPPY? HOW OKAY ARE YOU WITH FEELING GOOD--NOT JUST SOMETIMES BUT ALL OF THE TIME?

But, Peggy! I can almost hear you saying. It's not realistic to think I can be happy or feel good all the time. The world is hard. There are terrible things going on around us. People are starving. Children are being abused and murdered. There is crime. There is suffering. How can I feel good when I see so many people hurting!?!!

What if the way you can most help the world is to feel good regardless of the circumstances you are seeing? What if that is the ONLY lasting and real way you can help? What if YOUR joy is the crucial, absolutely irreplaceable, truly magical ingredient for peace and joy in the world?

This does NOT mean that we don't take appropriate, helpful, kind, and loving action. It does mean that we be willing to embrace that there is a bigger picture and trust that in the larger scheme everything and everyone is okay. We are all here to learn that it's better to be happy than to be unhappy. We are here to experience contrasts so that we can choose the experiences that feel good. We are not gaining merit by choosing to suffer and seeing others as sufferers. We are simply delaying happiness.

But, Peggy, I can't feel good when my best friend is struggling with an abusive husband and a child in trouble at school! I can't be joyful when my vacation is spoiled by encountering an animal that's been injured. I am saying that you will help your friend most by being happy, by focusing on the positive aspects of life that are everywhere and are being overlooked when you're focusing on problems. You can help her most by setting the example of choosing to feel good, of seeing her as a powerful being who CAN change her circumstances when she decides that it's important to feel good.

Anything else is supporting her victimization. You can suffer about the animal or you can take an appropriate action like enlisting the help of a vet and then trusting that, like you, the animal is profoundly okay in the bigger picture.

When you decide that it's okay to be okay, it's okay to feel good, and it's okay to make that the priority in your life, I promise you that it WILL FEEL GOOD! It's the Law. So, how okay are you with Being Okay?


A Noticing: We used to say "Neat!" when something delighted us or we wanted to express approval. Then that changed to "Cool!" Now, the word is "Sweet!" When I think about what these words express about our ever-changing world, I like the new slang best. Sweet. Sweet indeed! PJ

"The Basis of Your Life is Freedom
The Objective of Your Life is Joy
The Result of Your Life is Growth"

-from Abraham, 1991, A New Beginning II, by Jerry & Esther Hicks, Published by Abraham-Hicks Publications, 2001


A NEW YEAR AND NEW CLASSES! Exciting new classes are gestating. Watch for the announcements here and on my website: http://www.thejoycoach.com/coach-teleclasses.html

The teleclass on Deliberate Creation is SWEET; there'll be another one soon. Ask to be put on the announcement list for classes. Use this handy form.


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